The countdown towards 3rd and 4th May 2014!
Book photobooth vendor
Book Wedding Preparation course with Suchi Success for October
Buy wedding gifts – Aisyah’s handbag, Shoes and Sejadah for both, Telekung for Aisyah, Songkok for Helmi, Baju Melayu and samping for Helmi. (Left with Helmi’s watch, wallet and belt set, Aisyah’s baju kurung/kebaya)
DIY 1st stage of wedding trays for both Aisyah and Helmi – Wrap the base and prepare flowers etc.
DIY bunga pahar
Choose wedding card design on Etsy, and purchase
Finalise details on card, map, directions
Send for printing
When M’sian Aunt comes over for cousin’s wedding, ask her about Malay traditional customs like Malam Berinai, Siraman, Adat Merenjis on pelamin, difference between Bunga Pahar and Bunga Rampai, and Sirih Dara.
Spring clean Aisyah’s room.
Mini renovation for Aisyah’s room (future Helmi & Aisyah’s room) : Remove old built in wardrobes and install new ones. Paint walls.
Source for vendors selling cake berkat (Mum’s preference for fancier looking ones with flowers, not just plain ones)
**6 months before wedding:
Confirm wakils and get their ICs.
Confirm with Helmi which Tok Kadi he prefers (the same Kadi that married his parents. what a sentimental boy :))
Register marriage / book Tok Kadi on ROMM website
Book wedding cake.
Europe trip with parents (last one with them as a single).
Buy Helmi’s watch in Europe.
Finalise honeymoon details and start booking.
Helmi & Aisyah’s room/bridal room project:
- paint existing chest of drawers and study table white
- source for curtains for bridal decor